I have to laugh. The Sinus Drainage, is really a Quack and a half!
I also have to laugh, because today, at almost 30 years continuous sobriety, when I do get a bad stomach from 'Sinus Drainage' it really is from 'Sinus Drainage.' I have allergies and sometimes end up with Sinus Infections, and do to a bad gastronic system, of course, from all the years I drank, when my Sinuses do start draining, I get very nauseous and can have bouts of vomiting, lol
So for a practicing alkie to say it is Sinus Drainage, is just extremely funny to me.
Okay, enough of that, lol
You keep working on your plan for you and the kids. You will know when it is time to leave, even if only a separation.
However, it sounds like a LOT more hospital visits are in his future, and you will have to decide if you want to be a part of them or not. They are consequences of HIS actions and HIS actions alone.
Remember, we are with you in spirit, you are not alone.
Love and hugs,