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Thanks both for your awesome answer guys and your reminder to me.
It is a rainy day here, Yesterday I had such great help of an awesome neighbor to help me with my daughter while we dealt with chaos. She has 3 boys, and I am going to take the older 2 and my daughter to the skate rink so she can have a little downtime.
And if the phone rings again, I am not going to answer.
Great! Definitely take a few deep breaths and soak up the peace of knowing that you can now devote your energy to you and your kids, and that AH is doing what he needs to do--without you. So enjoy!