Oh Tam.. wow..well from a bottoming out standing this could be a good thing..you've got two mentally ill addicts livng together in an extremely dysfuntional way..drama and choas WILL ensue.You are right about not being able to help him, he must be the one to get his own peers to help him..it is all so tragic..what a cunning and baffling disease.hope you keep up with all those great things you are doing for your recovery!:ghug3