I can totally relate. I told several people, xSIL included, that I felt like I was mom to a surly teenager who expected to be treated the same as our toddler. Do this for me, do that for me, I demand this, F- this, you're a b-, I'm buying this game whether you have the money for it or not (XAH didn't)... But you do THIS for DS, you baby him (he was a baby!) why not me too? If DS was sick, XAH even sicker...
I am so glad that I'm not dealing with him on a day-to-day basis any more. I know when DS gets older, I'll be dealing with teenage hormones and angst again, but, I hope to HP that I'm raising DS better so that when he hits his teen years I'm not dealing with quite the same level of rude, surly, entitled attitude.