Thanks for everyone that replied. I did not call him today and he finally called this evening to let me know he would not be over to see the kids or I as he was going to help his grandma with something. He acted like nothing happened yesterday. Even asked if I was going to a cook out at his friends house with him this weekend.
He asked if he could spend the night on Saturday night. I have made it clear that I don't want that to happen. Not only would it be confusing to us, it would be confusing to our kids. I just don't see why he can let things be for a while. It is totally ridiculous! I don't think I have ever met anyone in my life that has to push so hard to have their way constantly. It is so exhausting. If someone made something clear to me, I don't think I would try to push the issue to have my way, but that is what he does best.