That totally does not fit my martyr complex. I'm going to have to stick with "fault."
Exactly, Cyranoak!
I need the martyr mantle to go around heaving big, deep sighs at what the world is coming to.
Then, my teenage daughter says, "How is that working for ya?" (A Dr. Phil joke between us.)
I agree with Cyranoak Destiny. My daughter is way over mature, I was very depressed when she needed me, and she practically raised herself. So, it might be the opposite of your daughter (but she is not willing to give me up just yet), but, now she knows she can come to me and I will do what I can with the knowledge I have now.
Beth