In the end my wife hated my drinking more than anyone, then again she was around me the most and she was the sober one of the 2 of us.
It took a very long time for me to realize that she had been right all along, she was the one wanting to leave at 10 when I'd stay till 2 am, she was the one hearing me hit walls as I stumbled to bed and she knew a couple meant a whole lot more, the list goes on, I wish I could of seen what she seen long ago...