TakingCharge, thanks again, I will use your advice, most definitely, afterall what have I got to lose?
I'm going to buy the book on Amazon this weekend, and then I will no longer be a codie ha well at least I will understand and start working on my issues, and watch out you may become my next codie victim :O
I didn't even know this term until a cpl of months ago, and then I didn't know I was one, until about 4-5 ppl pointed it out to me.
So SORRY babyblue for taking over your post like this, apparently I think the world revolves around me.
I really do wish the best for you and I think we should work together on this but not become on another's codies
