Originally Posted by
rowanthe 
I want to call her and at least tell her that I love her and always will.
Yes - this! And leave it at that. And then grit your teeth and hang on for what you already know is going to be a wild, painful ride.
Oh my goodness - my heart goes out to you for your pain and fear, confusion and embarrassment.
But alas, these are her choices to make, not yours. A little part of me, the protective mom part, wants to say kidnap her and take her far, far away for a long, long time! But its her life, her choices. We can only take care of what's ours.
Stay strong!
~T