Originally Posted by
suki44883 
I hope you are still planning to contact your lawyer today. This madness has to stop. Cut off all contact with the in-laws. Your marriage is none of their business. You are right, it is toxic and very harmful to your daughter. I would do whatever was in my power to keep her away from all of them. Find out from your attorney what that is.
I did call him and it did NOT go well. I talked to him for almost an hour this morning... There isn't much I can do to keep the girls from seeing his family when they are with him unless I have "evidence" (apparently family history of A, past history of abuse between mil and fil, mental illness on brother's part) is not evidence. Bruises, threats etc... are evidence... Verbal crap, enabling, plying AH with booze while on his way to rehab are abhorrent behaviors but not legally considered a direct threat to my kids. Maybe if they were going to LIVE there but according to my lawyer it is going to take a LOT to get visitation limited.
F'ing great news. Not.