Originally Posted by
RollTide 
I had hoped that a divorce might be his bottom or his wake up call, but that was not the case.
I have hoped so many things would be my husband's bottom, and none of them have. Secretly, I probably hope divorce will open his eyes, but the logical part of my brain says that's not likely.
Either way, a divorce is for me not an attempt to manipulate him. That I am certain of.