BobbyJ - You have written my life! I had to go back and make sure it was not a post I had written! Scary! My AH works 12-14 hr shifts, doesn't always have time for meetings, etc etc...
I feel my H is in "fix it" mode. He wants everything to go back to normal, move home (made him leave 2 weeks ago), start over. His mouth is flappling but his feet aren't moving - or at least the speed I want them to be moving!
Gonna give Al-Anon another shot tonight. Don't really want to go, but I know it can only help.
I just pray for clarity..