doing the right thing.......
I've retained in my reading lately lots of men with wives who drink. The wives go out, stay out, drink and who knows what else, and all I can think is what my AH says: "Women stay with men who treat them like sh*t."
Except the opposite in this case. I guess it could be said "People stay with people who treat them like crap."
I know this to not be a real truth in all cases.
But I sit here thinking, I am a good person. I am attractive, fun, kind, caring, a good mother, and many other positive things.
I am not living with my AH. It has crossed my mind numerous times to go out and start dating, make myself available.
He certainly seems to be doing that, even with a ring on his finger.
Yet, because I am legally married to him, I won't let myself even flirt with a man.
It kind of gets old doing the right thing all the time.