I got an amends a couple of weeks ago from my husbands sister who has been clean for 13 years..her stepson that she raised was killed and it spurred her to reconnect to her brother and I and apologize for her prior behavior while using...I had already forgiven her as my own daughter is an addict and I realized what had been going on with her years ago..but it was really nice to hear it, and has opened the door for moving on to a new relationship with each other...