Like I said above, I'm an "A" and I'm almost done with all 12 steps (on step 12 in the big book).
I have a long list of amends to make (almost 100), but that's also b/c I'm honestly trying to not leave anything or anyone out.
This whole process, working the steps, is changing who I was, but I also wanted that change, though didn't know it until after I got sober.
All of my amends, yes, they make me feel better and it's so important for me to make these amends so I'm not carrying it around any longer either.
I can only hope there is some healing with the person who was harmed as well, but that's completly out of my control now, even though my amends are sincere.
It's just sad and it feels, in some cases, like it was a different person who commited those harms/wrongs.
...I guess in some ways it was.
Kjell~