Hi Coolmummy - Wanted to congratulate you on your 10 days. That is awesome. No advice on who to tell or when to tell them.
I just remember when I was ten days (I'm only at six weeks now),
my thoughts and emotions were all over the place. I couldn't really
make many little decisions for myself. Heck, it was major when I decided
what to wear on any given day rather then throw on the same set of sweats because I couldn't think, lol!
As far as your husband, nope it isn't fair right now, but if you keep on keeping on I promise, you will start to feel much better physically. You might have some protracted withdrawals going on. I don't want to go through those very early days sober for anything! They were really hard both physically and emotionally, so please give yourself a break!