The thing is, he's not going to apologize no matter what. Unless he actually wishes to.
1. you bring it up, demand an apology
2. you bring it up, tell you in your world, a person would apologize
3. you don't bring it up, neither does he
Do you see that in all three scenarios, even if he said the words you long to hear, it would be false. So what's the point?
Keep coming here. We will help to bolster you up. Consider starting to attend al-anon or naranon, and many of us think the Melody Beattie books are about the truest things ever written.
Just please, don't give up on yourself.