Originally Posted by Tuffgirl

Good for you! Do give it your all; its worth it!

This feeling is normal. Took me many months at Al-Anon and even here on SR to get over the idea that this wasn't my problem - it was his. But you know what, I had a lot of problems because of it that I wasn't aware of until I began working the Al-Anon problem.

Now - 6 months after my first meeting, I don't really feel angry anymore. More like resigned to what life is today. And that feels good!