Found another bottle...
Just got home from my Counsler, met with my Preacher over lunch who is a good friend, walked around the house.... looked in the pine tree (normal) hiding spot, but this one was in the FRONT yard! Normally it was confined to the BACK yard! AH hasn't been here since Monday when I made him leave. So how many more am I gonna find?? Why do I still look for the hidden bottles? I guess it was a reminder that I am doing the right thing. I guess it just snaps me back into reality that he is an alcoholic, not just someone who drinks too much a few days a week when not working! OMG!
My Counsler told me to give it 3 months out of the house. Tell him he is to go to AA, get a Sponsor, get counseling and then decide if progress is being made. Then I can think about when or if I let him back into the house. I hope to make it 3 mths without cutting the cord completely!