PickMe,
I think you have drawn a boundary line, and not in the sand, but in hard rock.
"No more alcoholics, period". Recovering, or not, you don't want anything to do with that type of person anymore.
What's wrong with observing your own boundary? You've suffered enough pain from alcholics, and you don't want anymore.
So go ahead and give yourself the right to observe your own boundary. It's a good one by the way, because one never knows when alcoholic thinking will show up, and possibly worse-relapse.