Originally Posted by
stella27 
not getting old to read your posts at all. I wish that the relationship were working out the way you'd like. Even Recovering A's are a challenge, I guess. (of course, from where I sit, all relationships are a challenge!)
The problems seemed minor BEFORE he told me. I am wondering if my taking action of my own mental health needs and going to Al-Anon has changed my perception maybe and that's why it doesn't seem to be working out as well? Or maybe he really just hit a low that he had not hit before?