seriously? he says that YOU stole his refund?
Um...you gotta work to get a refund...period. This kid is not paying rent, eatting your food and acting like an entitlement king...
I know he's your son. We mama's love our children unconditionally but you are not helping him. You are actually hurting him by letting him continue on this way.
You have to do something. I don't know what...but know that it can't stay the way it is.
That isn't good for him or for you. Good luck and big hugs!