I came to SR because my son was addicted to drugs. I was married to his father from 1980 to 1996. We were married for 10 years before having kids and we partied quite a bit. I slowed WAY down on the drinking after kids came along....he did not. His alcoholic rages and firm denial resulted in our divorce.
So yeah, I've been known to abuse alcohol - especially in my 20's (I'm 52 now). When I came to SR I took a hard look at my drinking habits and didn't like what I saw... I was probably drinking an average of 15 units per week and because of the research I've done here and elsewhere I realize that is WAY too much...and I didn't like drinking as much anymore either. So, my drinking is now reduced to about 2 units a week at most and I'm good with that.
Many times I feel like I dodged a bullet....and that is another reason I am eternally grateful for my experience her on SR and the people who share here.