Mine is 4 months out, 5 months sober.
He is sober( ithink) but not in active recovery.
He takes more teenage liberties everyday.
I basically bad mouthed him out the door last night.
Listen, he doesn't come home? Doesn't call to let you know about this really nice thing he is doing for YOU, giving you space?
I call BS.
I think he may have been drinking.
Maybe not, but either way, that is not normal or respectful behavior.
It's downright weird.
Have u considered asking him to move out until he gets himself in order, has these everyday things, tasks, etc under his own belt?
All I can say is I wish I had done that. Mine did not have to earn anything back in terms of trust, respect, etc, because I opened my arms and my home back up to him.
And guess what?
He is an ungrateful little jerk, doing the minimum and now he is gone crying that I made things too hard.
You do what you think is right for you.
I know that I am tired of bring angry.