zrx no worries I do appreciate it all. I knew when I took this route I could use all the help I can get. Thank You
I know I can't change her. All I can do is hope that one word or one line opens her eyes which hopefully can be her turning point. I am hoping she can then see from outside the box, even a brief glimpse for starters.
I will continue to read the posts and hopeful they will guide me in the right direction.
I just had to start somewhere, I could not sit back and watch her slide deeper, without letting her know what I was seeing, hearing and feeling.
This is a relationship that started after a very long term one. I am in my early 50's and I have learned that time waits for no-one. So for me to keep on "Living" ... as much as I Love this person, I know I will move on if something does not change sooner than later.
Thank You I really do value your input.
Good for you .. moving on .. its never too late to begin again. Good Luck to you too.