Do you go to alnon?
I'm am ALL ABOUT alnon these days. Maybe you should try it if you haven't yet.
I'm proud of you that you are standing by convictions and boundaries.
and although I know your fueled more by anger right now...it does get easier.
Pray.
sounds contrite...but trust me it really does help.
You take care of yourself and your kids.
He is a grown up...he needs to deal w/ this in his own way. You were fair, you gave him options...but now it's time that he needs to understand it is not your job to baby and care for him in the way you have been.
Good for you!
Keep us updated!!! Praying for you!