YES! actions not words!Good for you for remembering that..sounds like things are very difficult right now..maybe a new way of looking at "helping" with his recovery would be to stay out of the way..if he's on the right track, let him go do it! Being around someone in early recovery (in my experience) is no picnic..doubtful that your daughter would get the kind of attention she needs at this point.It maight be better for everyone, ypur husband included, if he was allowed to really feel the consequences of his addiction and help himself..