Just from my experience I have learned that ~
"just because it says it on Facebook doesn't necessarily make it truth"
and may I also ask - how long did you pretend in your marriage that everything was wonderful, happy and great to the outside world when it really wasn't?
I know for me personally - I gave a great act to my friends and family that all was pretty good between my ex ah & I when we were married - so did he! When in public you would have thought we were the happiest couple ever ~ then as soon as we were behind closed doors - he went to his side of the house so that he could use his DOC & I went to mine to cry & pray for my life to be over; we hardly ever spoke again until it was time to face the outside world.
Just because someone says it doesn't make it true.
So Fighter, take good care of you and I pray your serenity and peacefulness returns soon!
PINK HUGS to you!
Rita