You are all right, it is very difficult for me to make this decision. I have to see him make the first move. I can't subject myself to this anymore and will have to be strong for my daughter and I. He says he's changing spiritually, we'll see. He said he's contacted his drug counselor we'll know of when because I would like to be there with him. He said he's contacted our pastor for counseling, check...our pastor called me and confirmed that he did make that appointment. He said he's contacted my cousin who is an AA counselor - check we'll see if he continues to talk to him. He said he'll be signing up for extra curricular activities in church - we'll see. All these words need to be placed into action. So far 2 of 4 is made.