I hate to generalize and of course this is not always true, but in my experience men tend to move on quickly, especially alcoholics I am sure because they can't stand to be alone. I just left my AH and although he proclaims his love to me often I am preparing myself because I KNOW him and he will have a girlfriend within two months, I guarantee it. He is handsome, puts on a good show at first and is incredibly needy. It will hurt when he does it, but I know it will happen. I on the other hand, can't imagine wanting to be in a relationship ever again right now, but I am sure in YEARS that opinion will change too.
