We cannot tell you not to go home. If that's what you really want to do, then that's what you will ultimately end up doing. The thing about leaving is that if you do it before you are truly done, then chances are, you'll end up going back. If you're not done, you're not done. Just like the drinker or the addict.
We just want you and your daughter to be safe and happy. If it takes another round in the same house as your husband, then that's what it takes. Just remember we are here to support you either way.