I agree. I can always say I dont want him there but the only thing with that is, is that if I ever get another boyfriend she will say that to me. I am going to go with the flow for now, but if ONE thing happens that makes me feel uncomfortable I'm having a talk with the roomate. We both pay rent and we should both be able to have male visitors but I just dont want aymore ACTIVE ADDICTS running their little games in my apartment that I pay for! He steals so I am worried about all my stuff! I dont really care if my roomate disrespects herself by taking him back but it just better not effect me and disrespect my privacy or my things in any way or I am going to have to have a HUGE talk with her. Or get out of my lease somehow.