Habit,
Welcome!
I'm am sorry for what has brought you here, but I'm sure you know that you are not alone.
My son is the addict in my life, he is 30 yrs. old. He has been clean about 19 mo. with the help of Suboxone. He is jobless, lives in a run down sober house where his roommate is drinking (there is no oversight or management,) and his girlfriend of 3 mo. broke up with him last Friday so . . . his life is not looking too good right now. He doesn't attend 12 step meetings and has no friends so I'm pretty much it - yah, NOT.
Nice to meet you and keep up the G R E A T work!