Hi QteeKitty!!!!
I'm going to share the following post that is part of the "stickies" in the Friends and Family forum. It really explains alot in a very no-nonsense way. It may sound harsh, but it is true and very necessary for us to try and understand......
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ddicts-do.html
Many of the friends and family of addicts have benefited from the face-to-face support of Al-Anon and Nar-Anon. I hope that you will consider giving that a short for yourself and your own peace of mind.
Huge hugs, HG