I just can't be a part of the drinking
I agree with you, it only gets worse.
he resents me because I don't let him drink.
well, there is his "excuse" right there.
i say this in jest, I am a recovering alcoholic, and coming up with reasons to drink is easy, its finding a way to stop and stay stopped that is hard.
ignore the foolish talk, it is not personal, he is convincing himself to drink.
In my opinion only.
Is this a binge coming or am I that oblivious to the fact?
Oh, AMarie, I think your gut is telling you what is happening.
You need to decide how much more you are going to live with.
Binging occasionally, blaming you for it?
Binging regularly and getting nastier, meaner and still blaming you?
Or nightly drinking with the DUI's, court dates, jail time, rehabs.
Please go to AlAnon and get some support for yourself.
What he says means nothing until he stops drinking and gets a recovery program.
Actions, not words.
Beth