He said he resents me because he can't drink...
I was here a year ago. My AB and I have been together for 3 years now. I tried many things... He had 3 binges that we both "acknowledge" this past year. Which is a big improvement. I kind of suspect that it was more. He usually is a jerk when he drinks but, he wasn't these times I suspected. And if I did ask him when he wasn't, he would get really mad at me. He's been talking about drinking lately whether its joking or making certain comments. We argued last night and he said he resents me because I don't let him drink. I don't tell him what he can and can't do. I just can't be a part of the drinking. Is this a binge coming or am I that oblivious to the fact? I would appreciate any comments/help/advice. Thanks.