From your other post, sounds like a lot of craziness going on for a daughter to be a party to anyway. Do you think your wife can get her to a safe place away from the chaos until you two work things out calmly? If you're still drinking, being near you is no place for your daughter to be right now.
Focus on getting better right now. Sounds like things are really hairy for you and you probably need some breathing room to calm down and get your head on straight. Any way you could get to a meeting? I know you are agoraphobic but sometimes just sitting in a roomful of folks who all face the problem of stopping drinking just helps.
Much love.