My wife took my daughter and just left
From your other post, sounds like a lot of craziness going on for a daughter to be a party to anyway. Do you think your wife can get her to a safe place away from the chaos until you two work things out calmly? If you're still drinking, being near you is no place for your daughter to be right now.
Focus on getting better right now. Sounds like things are really hairy for you and you probably need some breathing room to calm down and get your head on straight. Any way you could get to a meeting? I know you are agoraphobic but sometimes just sitting in a roomful of folks who all face the problem of stopping drinking just helps.
Much love.
Focus on getting better right now. Sounds like things are really hairy for you and you probably need some breathing room to calm down and get your head on straight. Any way you could get to a meeting? I know you are agoraphobic but sometimes just sitting in a roomful of folks who all face the problem of stopping drinking just helps.
Much love.
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i am a joke. want me to be honest. my daughter got a great hug from me,,,,it may be yhe last...i love her. never wanted a kid until my wife talked me into it...now i can see it so clear that i love her!!!
Hi Mesh-
I know you got upset with me on your last post, but do you really think drinking is going to make anything better?
Do you think you can stay sober, just for today? Maybe worry about tomorrow, tomorrow?
What can you do differently than you've done before?
We can and do recover and you can be living proof.
Kjell
I know you got upset with me on your last post, but do you really think drinking is going to make anything better?
Do you think you can stay sober, just for today? Maybe worry about tomorrow, tomorrow?
What can you do differently than you've done before?
We can and do recover and you can be living proof.
Kjell
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Mesh, it does seem that you're probably at least a little intoxicated right now. Have some tea, have something to eat and get yourself into bed for a nap. Your head will be much more clear when it's not full of alcohol.
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wtf i gotta live for?
Believe me brother, I know the pain. I've been there. If you make this your bottom, then there's nowhere to go but up.
Mesh, I'm sorry you are having a tough time.
But there is nothing in your situation that can be made better by continuing to drink.
Talk to your Dr about whats going on.
And hold on to the thought that you want to be the best Dad you can be for your daughter, and the best man you can be for yourself.
My thoughts are with you.
Hug
But there is nothing in your situation that can be made better by continuing to drink.
Talk to your Dr about whats going on.
And hold on to the thought that you want to be the best Dad you can be for your daughter, and the best man you can be for yourself.
My thoughts are with you.
Hug
mesh
Everyone here is trying to help - it's what we do. We're all on your side
You need to stop drinking.
Put down the drink and get into anywhere you can - Salvation Army ER...wherever.
You can make it back - nothing that's happened today needs be permanent - but you need to stop digging yourself a hole first, man.
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Everyone here is trying to help - it's what we do. We're all on your side
You need to stop drinking.
Put down the drink and get into anywhere you can - Salvation Army ER...wherever.
You can make it back - nothing that's happened today needs be permanent - but you need to stop digging yourself a hole first, man.
D
Yeah, that's exactly what this situation needs: you getting drunk. That's probably the best way to get your daughter back. That's probably the perfect thing to address issues with your wife. That's probably the 1 thing that needs to happen to make everything all better.
...Either that, or it's the worst possible thing you could do.
Now, if you think drinking is the right way to handle this, if you think it will make you feel better (really feel better, not just feel drunk) and make things better in your life, then by all means, please continue.
But if you don't think that, then why on Earth would you do it? So you can cause more heartache for yourself, just to get upset and depressed about that and then go drink again?
Pretty sure you know the right thing to do here, and the wrong thing. It's up to you which one you choose.
...Either that, or it's the worst possible thing you could do.
Now, if you think drinking is the right way to handle this, if you think it will make you feel better (really feel better, not just feel drunk) and make things better in your life, then by all means, please continue.
But if you don't think that, then why on Earth would you do it? So you can cause more heartache for yourself, just to get upset and depressed about that and then go drink again?
Pretty sure you know the right thing to do here, and the wrong thing. It's up to you which one you choose.
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