Same here that 2 month mark always seemed to bring about contact again by him or like you I would stir the waters to get him to contact me.
I’m known to be stubborn at times lol so if that stubbornness can work in my favor and keep me from feeling weak and reaching out, so be it.
Guess knowing him as well as I do, guess that’s what happens when you are with someone for 10 years, my fear is that tomorrow for Valentines may be the time he reaches out but most likely in a covert way like sending flowers or a card then again maybe not…………he’s so filled with fear that if he dares do anything wrong then for sure he blows it and any hope of getting back together is all gone.