He's still trying to make me feel guilty for "not trying" to make this work okjland has yet to mention a thing about recovery. I do agree with the no contact, but neither of us really has a solid place to go yet, so we're taking turns staying at the house and will have to be in touch until one of us finds an apartment. I actually find his texts helpful though, because they are so obviously intended to make me feel bad, that it gives me strength that I've made the right decision.