Yes yes yes!! My feelings about myself were extremely low. Low self-worth, low self-esteem. And a couple of years ago I was convinced I was a lot of the things he told me I was and there was nothing you could have said to help me really believe in myself. I drowned myself in a lot of vodka. The farther I get from it the more I can see I that it had nothing to do with me.
The farther you get away from it, the more you will see it really has nothing to do with you. It helps to be around healthy and happy people and when you see that they are not putting you down and focusing so much on you in a negative way, that there is nothing wrong with you. He's just an unhappy, miserable person and had to drag you down to his unhappy and miserable level...otherwise how else would you stay?