Originally Posted by
celticghirl 
I am crying my eyes out,im sick and i know that whatever i say to him isnt going to make any difference but it still kills me not to say it!
But when i think abt it i really wouldnt know what to say anyway,he is a very angry person,but i just wish i could get through to him but i cant and it breaks my bloody heart.
ghirl xx
Oh I know. For a long time I clung to the belief that I just had not found the right combination yet. Just keep tweaking what I did or said and he'd 'get' it. As you know - it doesn't work that way though. It isn't us.
In hindsight I think I was trying to get through to myself as much as i was him. You might find it helpful to write letters to him - probably one's you never give him. Get it out, get it said, let it make sense to *you* and it might be easier to let go of the false beliefs.