Originally Posted by
Smallsteps 
I think the answer has to relate to what your expectations are. Will you be able to get your point across? What do you expect the result to be if you do make your point? And will you be resentful if your words just sail in one ear and out the other? Will you feel better for expressing yourself regardless of what the outcome is?
Sadly, AH is not exactly Mr. Empathy. So airing my feelings to him is usually a well-thought-out exercise, not something spontaneous.
sadly enough i want him to realise what he is doing to himself and me,and i know deep down that isnt possible because if it was then alcoholism would have been cured years ago, damn looks like i got the answer to my question.
ghirl xx