He's an a****** to his family. He gets on the phone and calls EVERYBODY who will talk to him, even guys he was in a band with when he was 23 (he is 44 now), goes outside and talks to the neighbors he can't stand when he's sober, tries to make our 12 year old daughter play basketball (she's got no interest in sports), and talks about how much fun he had "back in the day".