I know the verbal crap that comes from his mouth is manipulation. In the past he has broken me. This is the first time my spouse and I have stood firm in our detachment. We did install a camera at work, has deterred him to stay of the property. It's the anger I saw in his face, almost as this young man I raised is a total stranger. Truth is he's been a stranger for years and we were so wrapped up in trying to save him we didnt even notice. His addiction has progressed, never did I feel nervous around him.