I also went to allot of meetings my first few months. But I was in the same boat as you, and was ready for something to change.….so I finally found myself a sponsor who helped weed threw the meeting schedule with me. We picked a step (woman’s) group as well as a big book study. I even choose a speaker meeting. Those were and still are my main meetings…and I fill in where and when w/ others. Sometimes I just go to the 3 but other times ill hit more….all depends on what’s going on in my life and where my head is with it all….