please help
i don't know what to do. BF has been making failed attempts at quitting drinking, had bad physical withdrawls and medicated with alcohol. got arrested for DUI yesterday, and started drinking when he got home. told him i couldn't be with him if he continued to drink.
he broke down today, called hospitals/therapists/etc., confessed all to his family, and swears up and down he's going to quit this time, doesn't want to lose me, loves me, needs me. he is going to move back home (another state) to detox, but doesn't know when he's going.
he wants me to come over and be with him, and i don't know what to do. i know he has been drinking (so he doesn't withdraw) but isn't drunk now. i want to support him and love him, but i am so so so scared that this will be another reason for him not to quit. do i keep up the tough love? do i give in? i love him and don't want to lose him, and am completely lost now...