We set boundaries for our daughter. We do not pay her bills, etc. However, last Thursday was a milestone for me. I wrote her that I loved her. I went on to write that I was distancing myself from her. I wrote her that I was going to work on my own health. And, that I was emotionally and physically going to detach from her. I requested that she not call us anymore. I requested that she would not send us anymore e-mails . I wrote..."please no more contact."

She has called and left several messages on my a/m telling me how horrible and crazy I am. She told me that "even though she is not doing drugs...she will probably go ahead and over dose." I know this is manipulation.