Thanks to all. Ah, he was in jail for the DUI. Got arrested last night, car towed, called me at 4:45 to come get him (I declined). I just feel so lost right now.
Guess I am just hoping that if I call, he will ask me to take him to detox. Which I would gladly do. But mostly just feeling sad that this is the giant crash-and-burn demise of a relationship with someone I so strongly believe to be the love of my life.
