Originally Posted by
MarlinVX 
She is considering allwoing her mom to come visit this weekend. I hope she says yes, but I don't know if my MIL needs to see her like this.
Maybe she DOES need to see her like this. Part of the disease is the hiding, trying to make everything look hunky-dory on the outside while you are dying and desperate on the inside. It's a big relief not to have to pretend anymore.